Whenever you do something in public, from writing to speaking to sports, critics will find you. When should you listen to them and when should you ignore them?
In his book “Limitless“, author Jim Kwik makes it really simple:
“Don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from.”
There are a lot of people in this world that I have a great deal of respect for. If they offer me advice or criticism, I’m going to listen.
On the other hand, if I hear from someone that has neither the credentials or relationship to have earned that respect, I’m less likely to heed what they have to say. I’d be foolish to ignore them completely (maybe they’re pointing out an obvious flaw, like a typo), but generally I don’t worry about their opinion.
Either way, if you need to offer a bit of criticism, take the time to wrap it in a bit of kindness and put in a bit of emotional labor to help the recipient have the best chance of appreciating what you have to say.
