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2D versus 3D content in meetings

November 19, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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One eye-opening insight from Juliet Funt’s book “A Minute to Think” was her concept of 2D versus 3D content when it comes to communication. More specifically, she shared the problems that arise when we mix the two up and use the wrong form of communication for the type of content that we need to share or discuss. From the book:

“2D content is usually simple, yes/no, or fact driven. 2D modes of communication can include texts, emails, printouts, online chats, and so on. Reports and presentation decks are also 2D. Conversely, 3D content has nuance, emotion, or the opportunity for creative thinking. In 3D communication we exchange critical cues through our tone, pace, and gestures. We discuss ideas, ask complex questions, and connect interpersonally. 3D modes of communication require a live element—a phone call, meeting, video chat, or face-to-face conversation. Shared voice memos and recorded video exchanges can sometimes blur these lines, but the 2D vs. 3D distinction should guide you most of the time.”

The problems arise when you share 2D content in a meeting or you try to share 3D content via email. The results are easy to see coming:

“Share 3D content in a 2D medium and you compromise richness. Share 2D content in a 3D medium and you waste time. Your goal is to match the message with the medium.”

Finally, there is the challenge of mixed content. What if the discussion requires a bit of 2D and a bit of 3D? You could put it all in the meeting, but if you can push the 2D content to the edges it can be a win for everyone. Lastly, from Juliet again:

“2D vs. 3D awareness can reduce attendance on both sides of the meeting process. Collecting 2D information before a meeting can remove someone who would have only been invited to rattle off facts or data. On the flip side, publishing 2D open-source notes after the meeting helps us realize we have two choices in our communications: invite or inform. The availability of open-source notes also greatly relaxes the FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) of those not chosen to attend, or maybe even changes it to our kind of FOMO (Finally Obtaining More Oxygen).”

I love her new definition of FOMO. The book talks a lot about our need for more white space in our lives (or “Oxygen”, in this case), and this new way of looking at meetings can be a helpful way to win back just a bit more of it.

Filed Under: Leadership, Productivity

Blameless Postmortems

November 11, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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The idea of a “postmortem” is something we try to do after every major project. We look back at how things went, be glad about what went well, and work on things to improve for the next one.

The key to a solid postmortem, and to leading a solid team, is to focus on the core issues and not lay blame on humans. If something went wrong, what really was the cause? Google’s SRE (“Site Reliability Engineering”) site explains further:

Blameless postmortems are a tenet of SRE culture. For a postmortem to be truly blameless, it must focus on identifying the contributing causes of the incident without indicting any individual or team for bad or inappropriate behavior. A blamelessly written postmortem assumes that everyone involved in an incident had good intentions and did the right thing with the information they had. If a culture of finger pointing and shaming individuals or teams for doing the “wrong” thing prevails, people will not bring issues to light for fear of punishment.

There certainly may be times when a human is at fault, but there is almost always a cause above that. It could be distractions, excessive workload, unclear procedures, or any number of other things.

As Google shares, if you immediately go to finger pointing you’ll get less and less feedback during future postmortems. These can be a gold mine of useful information, so treating them the right way for this one and the next one will help lead to increasingly great results down the road.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership, Learning

You couldn’t tell who the bosses were

October 15, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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Tom Murphy is one of those guys that not enough people know about it. He ran Capital Cities Communications (which you also likely haven’t heard of) for years back in the 1960’s until it eventually acquired the ABC network in 1985, which was later purchased by Disney in 1986.

His story is fascinating, and a recent episode of the Founders podcast dug deep into it. While there were a lot of great stories in that show, and perhaps more posts to come, this one stood out the most. It’s a story of a bartender that purchased stock in Capital Cities in the 1970’s (which undoubtedly earned a massive return on investment) and why he did it:

He told me a story about a bartender at one of the management retreats who made a handsome return by buying capital city stock in the early 1970s.

When the bartender was later asked why he made the investment, he replied, “I’ve worked a lot of corporate events over the years, but capital cities was the only company where you couldn’t tell who the bosses were.”

The idea of “you couldn’t tell who the bosses were” is an interesting one. On the one hand, as the bartender shares, it can be a great thing. The bosses get along with their team, and everyone pushes forward.

On the other hand, we’ve all seen organizations where the leadership becomes great friends with the team and then is unable to make tough decisions. It’s a fine line, for sure.

Given all that Murphy and Capital Cities accomplished, not to mention the love that Warren Buffett had for Murphy’s style, I tend to think he did things the right way. Not being able to tell who the bosses were can indeed be a very good thing.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Stewardship, not ownership

October 8, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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Kevin Paul Scott has a fantastic description of the idea of “stewardship” versus that of “ownership”. In his book “Return on Inspiration“, he says:

“Stewards take care of things for other people; owners look out for their own interests. When we look at companies through this lens, we see that some owners act more like stewards because they use their resources for the benefit of their employees and customers. Everything we are and everything we have comes from the hand of God. He has entrusted goods, people, and opportunities to us. When we have that perspective, we treat employees, customers, and vendors with respect.”

Are you taking care of things for other people, or just looking out for your own interests? I’d argue that the best way to look out for your own interests is to take care of things for other people, so it should be an easy decision.

It’s similar to the idea of training people well enough so they can leave. You’re giving up some “ownership” by giving your employees more power, but it’s likely to be of benefit to everyone in the long run.

I’ve found that in most areas of life “ownership” will improve your short-term gains, but “stewardship” will lead to wildly better results down the road.

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Train people well enough so they can leave

October 3, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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There’s a maxim I’ve heard a few times over the years that goes something like: “You should invest in your team to make them the best that they can be. This may mean that some leave for better opportunities, but that beats the opposite of just not investing in them at all.“

This came to mind while recently listening to Richard Branson on Adam Grant’s ReThinking podcast where Branson said:

“Train people well enough so they can leave. Treat them well enough so they don’t want to.”

It’s vitally important to do both.

  • If you fail to train people “well enough so they can leave”, you’re stuck with a bunch of employees that aren’t very valuable.
  • Of course, if you train them super well but treat them poorly, then you’re going to have never-ending churn.

The challenge is that it takes time, effort and resources for both sides of that. You’ve gotta commit to continue to train and treat them well perpetually, but if you can do it the payoff will be amazing.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

The “Maker’s Schedule” vs the “Manager’s Schedule”

September 19, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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When I was reading Josh Kaufman’s “The Personal MBA“, he shared this interesting viewpoint about our calendars from Paul Graham. He said:

Paul Graham, a venture capitalist, programmer, and essayist, calls this batching strategy “Maker’s Schedule/Manager’s Schedule.” If you’re trying to create something, the worst thing you can possibly do is to try to fit creative tasks in between administrative tasks—context switching will kill your productivity. The “Maker’s Schedule” consists of large blocks of uninterrupted time; the “Manager’s Schedule” is broken up into many small chunks for meetings. Both schedules serve different purposes—just don’t try to combine them if your goal is to get useful work done.

My initial reading was that most of us should work to have a “Maker’s Schedule” so we don’t kill our productivity, and perhaps that’s true, but there are big exceptions.

It reminded me of someone I worked with years ago when he was a project manager. He was a great guy and worked hard, but he tried to have a “Maker’s Schedule” and that just didn’t work for his kind of role. If you’re a project manager, you have to live by more of a “Manager’s Schedule”, where context switching IS the role. Ultimately, it led to him moving on to a different company (and a very different role) where a “Maker’s Schedule” was the proper fit for what he did.

This also has me thinking about my schedule and role. My schedule undoubtedly should be a “Maker’s Schedule” at this point, but it’s still a “Manager’s Schedule” for the most part. It’s something I need to work on, and this simple framework is helping me push it forward.

What kind of schedule do you have? Is it the right one for what you do?

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Nick Saban didn’t give out game balls

September 4, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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One of the best things that Nick Saban did while coaching the University of Alabama football team was promote an unbelievable amount of team over individual. While they certainly had a ton of amazing individual athletes on his teams that have gone on to great success in the NFL, Saban made sure the focus was always team first.

As part of that focus, Saban never gave out a “game ball” to the best player on his team after each game. The book “Big Potential” explains more:

Similarly, Nick Saban, the venerated head coach of the University of Alabama’s perennially championship-winning football team, doesn’t buy into the tradition of handing out game balls to MVPs, because he believes that singling out players for individual achievements goes against his winning objective; for him, success is all about the team’s win, not one superstar’s stats.

While it doesn’t surprise me in retrospect, I never knew that was a thing that any team did; I assumed they all gave out game balls. It’s somewhat like the idea of “We think that’s stupid” that I shared yesterday; don’t just do what others do for no reason. Nick clearly knew that most teams gave out a game ball every week, but he thought that was a stupid way to put individuals above the team as a whole, so he simply didn’t do it.

His results speak for themselves.

Filed Under: Leadership

What can we do to get out of your way?

August 19, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I’ve shared a bit about Danny Meyer (founder of Shake Shack, among other restaurants) before, as he has some amazing insights on leadership. In a recent podcast with Adam Grant, he shared a few more gems.

One in particular was a quote about hiring. Danny believes in hiring great people and then allowing them to be great. Specifically, he says:

“If you hire great people, get out of their way and let them succeed. Yes, give them the tools, but don’t do stupid things that make it harder to succeed.”

It’s easier said than done, but it can be fantastic. It’s very similar to the idea of never managing people who don’t need to be managed. If you hire someone amazing, then managing their every move seems like an awful idea. They should follow the core processes and procedures that you’ve set in place, but beyond that they should have the freedom to just get things done.

If you’re hiring someone for minimum wage at your fast food restaurant, then dictating their every move might be a good plan. However, if you’re paying a generous salary to an amazing employee, anything other than letting them be amazing is just going to hold everyone back.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Never manage people who don’t need to be managed

August 10, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I often see posts on Reddit that follow a similar path:

  • An employee works hard at their company.
  • They find new ways to do their job more efficiently.
  • Management decides to tighten down on exactly how they should do their job.
  • Things therefore become less efficient, they lose clients, and the employee quits.

While I certainly appreciate that processes exist for a reason and there are times to square things back up, when people are working hard to get things done it’s often best to stay out of their way. Ideally, employees should be lead, not managed.

In the case of GreenMellen, I don’t feel the need to “manage” anyone there (and if anyone from our team is reading this, I hope you agree and you’ll tell me if you don’t). Really, it comes back to a matter of trust. If I trust the people that work for us, it makes life better all the way around. We set parameters on what work needs to be done, values around how we work, and let the team decide how best to do it and when to work on it.

There’s certainly a need for people to be managed in many circumstances, but don’t try to manage those that don’t need to be managed in the first place.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Founders shouldn’t be hireable

August 6, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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As GreenMellen has grown over the years, one of the challenges that Ali and I have faced is figuring out what our roles should be at various stages. Early on it was easy; she was the designer and I was the developer. Once those roles were filled by others, where did that leave us?

It’s a question that has no simple answer, and we’ve done different things over the years. In a recent episode of the “Founders” podcast, host David Senra shared this regarding Thomas Edison:

“Really, the way I think about a founder is like you’re developing skills that you can’t hire for. You’re gonna hire for everything else, but you shouldn’t be hireable. And Edison wasn’t.”

More specifically, Edison is quoted as saying:

“I can hire mathematicians, but they can’t hire me.”

Over time, I’ve worked to build skills are more valuable for the company, but also trickier to define. My role now consists of a bit of CFO, some HR, some sales, and various things to keep the company running smoothly. Ali has a very similar (yet very different) list of her own. That list of items changes quite a bit for both of us, as we hire out the hireable skills, and work to develop the more challenging ones.

Becoming someone who “isn’t hireable” is a bit nerve-racking, but is likely the best way to lead a company.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

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