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Make decisions before circumstances force them to be made

July 27, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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March 2020 was a scary time to be a business owner. Things were still going well for us, but the future was very uncertain — for everyone!

Ali and I took some time that month to plot out two sets of scenarios for our business.

  1. Determining how long could we sustain the company if we lost x clients, or if recurring revenue dropped by a certain percent, or various other potential situations that COVID might cause.
  2. Setting “triggers” for various things to happen if things went very poorly. We’d dip into savings if scenario 1 hit, we’d lay off some of the team if scenario 2 hit, and a bunch of related ideas.

The plan was simply to be ready. If things went poorly business-wise because of COVID, we’d have already made the necessary decisions on how to handle the latest issue.

In his book “Clear Thinking“, author Shane Parrish offers that exact suggestion, saying:

A good position allows you to think clearly rather than be forced by circumstances into a decision. One reason the best in the world make consistently good decisions is they rarely find themselves forced into a decision by circumstances.

Our primary goal was to avoid hitting any of the trigger marks, which we were able to do. 2020 turned out to be a very solid year for us financially, so none of those actions had to be taken but it was comforting to know how we’d handle the most likely situations that could occur so we wouldn’t be “forced by circumstances into a decision”.

We can’t plan for everything that might happen, but making decisions before you’re in the middle of the circumstance gives some peace and helps insure clarity in the action that needs to be taken.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Define the problem

July 16, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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It’s always good to be able to solve a problem, but it’s often far better to help make the problem crystal clear before you try to solve it.

I was recently watching the excellent movie “Moneyball”, and this scene shows exactly what I’m talking about:

The scouts are all trying to solve the problem and “we all understand what the problem is”, but they’re all on very different pages. As Dan Roam said (via “The Personal MBA“):

“Whoever best describes the problem is the one most likely to solve it.”

Albert Einstein said it like this (via “Inspired Every Day“):

“If I were given one hour to save the planet, I would spend fifty-nine minutes defining the problem and one minute resolving it.”

Problem solving is a fantastic skill, but it only works if you have a clearly-defined problem to start from.

Filed Under: Leadership

Who is the best listener you know?

June 25, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I was recently reading Kevin Paul Scott’s “Inspired Every Day“, and one little statement he made hit me very hard. He simply said:

“Who is the best listener you know? What is that person’s impact on you and others?”

It hit because this should (in theory) be me, but it’s not. It’s hard to really gauge that kind of skill, particularly when trying to compare yourself to others, but I’m confident that Ali, Brooke and Robert are all better than I am, and likely many others too.

I’ve talked about listening on here quite a few times, such as how to gain empathy through true listening, and while my listening skills have certainly improved over the past few years, they have a long way to go.

It’s important to note that Kevin directly tied the ability to listen into the degree of impact that the listener can make in your life. If you want to create impact, and most all of us do, listening is a key skill to help you get there.

Filed Under: Empathy, Leadership

If you’re a leader, you’re a teacher

June 21, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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Jim Sinegal was one of the cofounders of Costco and had some amazing quotes captured over the years. My favorite, while not related to this post, was what he told his successor as he was stepping down: “If you raise the effing hot dog, I will kill you. Figure it out.”

For today’s quote, though, he was talking about the intersection of leadership and education. In a recent episode of Founders (which was focused on Steve Jobs), they shared this quote from Jim:

“If you’re not spending 90% of your time teaching, you’re not doing your job.”

As you develop as a leader, it can be tricky to figure out where best to spend your time. As GreenMellen has grown, both Ali and I have had to work to determine how best to serve our team as our roles became less about doing the tactical work of marketing. As this quote shares, teaching has been a big part of it.

  • Teaching our team through high-level items (goals, mission, etc) and tactical issues.
  • Teaching our clients through various interactions.
  • Teaching the community through things like our Meetup and podcast.
  • Teaching others through activities such as this blog.

We see this through great leaders in every kind of organization. You have business leaders like Sinegal, but even leaders in sports are great teachers; Michael Jordan was famous for the amount of time he spent teaching and mentoring the younger players on his team.

I’m not sure that Jim’s 90% number is accurate, but it’s likely very close. Finding ways to teach, at any level, is a great thing for both sides of the conversation.

Filed Under: Leadership

Your personal board of directors

May 2, 2024 by greenmellen 2 Comments

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Having a personal board of directors would be amazing. I’m on a few boards with other organizations, but it’d be neat to have my own — I could just have a group of people to call on to answer questions and help me work through things.

As it turns out, I have one!

Most of them don’t know they’re on it, and some are no longer even living, but I have a great group of people I can turn to for help.

Shane Parrish explains his board in his book “Clear Thinking“, when he says :

Put all of your exemplars on your “personal board of directors,” a concept that originates with author Jim Collins: Back in the early ’80s, I made Bill Lazier the honorary chairman of my personal board of directors. And when I chose members . . . they were not chosen for their success. They were chosen for their values and their character. . . . They’re the sorts of people I wouldn’t want to let down.

He unpacks “exemplars” a bit more, saying:

One of my exemplars is Charlie Munger, the billionaire business partner of Warren Buffett. He raised my standard for holding an opinion. One night at dinner, he commented, “I never allow myself to have an opinion on anything unless I know the other side’s argument better than they do.”

My board of directors

It got me thinking about who might be on my board, and they come from various walks of life.

Some are people that I don’t really know but I read quite a lot, such as:

  • Charlie Munger
  • Seth Godin
  • Blair Enns
  • Gary Vaynerchuk

Others are people I know personally and talk to often, including:

  • Ali Green
  • Robert Carnes
  • Adam Walker
  • Rachael Studebaker

Both lists could go on quite a bit further, but these are all people that I think about when making decisions. Would Charlie think this is a wise financial move? Would Gary think I’m holding myself back? Would Ali agree with the ethical ramifications of it?

It’s awesome to have my own board of directors, and I’ll bet you have one too. Who is on yours?

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Teamwork requires trust

May 1, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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One thing that I love about having a relatively small team (it’s myself and Ali, and then seven others) that are full-time employees instead of contractors is the trust that can be built. You certainly can build trust with larger teams and with part-time or contract employees, but it gets more difficult. Having people by your side 40 hours a week, year after year, is a fantastic way to generate that trust.

In Patrick Lencioni’s “The Five Dysfunctions of a Team“, he shares it this way:

“Trust is the foundation of real teamwork. And so the first dysfunction is a failure on the part of team members to understand and open up to one another.“

Getting team members to “understand and open up to one another” doesn’t happen overnight, but the benefits are unbelievable. Not only will they work together far better when they trust one another, but it makes my job much easier as well, for two reasons:

  1. I don’t have to follow up to make sure things are done. I’m confident in emailing anyone on my team to take care of something, and I know it’ll get taken care of in a timely manner.
  2. The “timely manner” is important too, because it doesn’t always mean “right away”. I trust them to prioritize my request with the rest of their workload, and it tends to work out very well. I try to infuse my requests with a smidge of Commander’s Intent (“here’s what I need done, and here is why I need it”), and the more I can include the “why”, the better they’re able to prioritize it.

This also reminds of something that Shane Parrish shared in “Clear Thinking“, when he said:

There is only one most important thing in every project, goal, and company. If you have two or more most important things, you’re not thinking clearly. This is an important aspect of leadership and problem-solving in general: you have to pick one criterion above all the others and communicate it in a way that your people can understand so they can make decisions on their own. This is true leadership. You need to be clear about what values people are to use when making decisions. If I tell you the most important thing is serving the customer, you know how to make decisions without me. If you make a bad judgment call, but it puts the customer first, I can’t fault you. You did what I wanted.

Trust doesn’t come automatically, but building a place of trust makes for a much better situation for literally everyone involved.

Filed Under: Leadership

Say something

January 23, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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We have a fantastic team at GreenMellen, but that can lead to situations where if someone on the team is doing a great job with their work, it can often go unnoticed.

“Of course they did great work on x, that’s their job“.

It’s explained much more eloquently in Patrick Lencioni’s book “The Ideal Team Player“. Patrick says:

All too often in life, we see people do what we want them to do and we say nothing, assuming that the behavior has become natural for them, an easy standard. We justify our lack of praise by claiming that it would be embarrassing to the employee to call attention to a behavior that she sees as something fundamental. What we’re failing to realize is that the point of praise is not only to reinforce the behavior in that employee, but also to reinforce it in everyone else.

In our case, we intentionally try to notice times when our team is exemplifying our core values, and their consistently excellent work can make it tricky to find those moments. The best solution I’ve found is for Ali and I to take some time to look at our five core values each week and try to come up with specific situations where they’ve been best exemplified by our team.

It’s imperfect, but creating that intentionality (versus just hoping something will pop out) had helped a lot.

Do you have any ways to make sure that the excellent day-to-day work of your team doesn’t go unnoticed?

Filed Under: Business, Leadership

Decentralized Command

September 5, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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When you’re a solopreneur, working on your own, you need to control every decision. It can be brutal, but necessary. As your company grows, though, getting out of making every decision is the best thing you can do. It can also be very tough, but also very necessary.

In his book “The Dichotomy of Leadership“, author Jocko Willink shares his “Four Laws of Combat”, with the fourth being “Decentralized Command”, explained by Willink here:

No one leader can manage it all or make every decision. Instead, leadership must be decentralized, with leaders at every level empowered to make decisions, right down to the frontline troopers in charge of no one but themselves and their small piece of the mission. With Decentralized Command, everyone leads. To empower everyone on the team to lead, team members must understand not just what to do but why they are doing it.

His situation is military-focused, but the application of that law reaches all of us. In any scenario, trust is the key; if you can’t trust others to make decisions on your behalf, then you can’t hope for any degree of decentralized command.

This also pulls in a good degree of Commander’s Intent (explained here), when Willink advises that “team members must understand not just what to do but why they are doing it“. If they understand the why behind the need, they can adjust to make the right choice.

If you have a team that understands the “why” and are people you can rely on, you’ve got something rare and amazing. If not, Willink’s book might be a great place to start to learn how to work toward that change.

Filed Under: Leadership

Share with context

August 14, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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As my team will tell you, I’ve been bad over the years about forwarding information to them with just one line from me: “Thoughts?”. That’s not helpful.

When I sent those items, such as a review of a new software tool, I legitimately just wanted to hear their overall feedback. However, it could also be taken two different ways:

  1. Does he want me to implement this now?
  2. Is there something else in here I’m missing?

Josepha Haden Chomphosy recently wrote about this issue and how it’s affected her as a leader. She referenced an amazing clip from the show “Silicon Valley” where the CEO of the company quips “the bear is sticky with honey” and the team scrambles to figure out what he really means. Check it out here:

As Josepha points out so well in her post, clarity matters a lot, and spending a few extra moments to offer context can be huge. In her words:

Context-free sharing of anything assumes that everything between you and the recipient is identical: the same frame of reference, values, and requisite information. I have found that, especially when I want team members to come to their own conclusions, I owe it to them to give them some concept of what made this worth their time in the first place.

Sharing fresh content and ideas with our team is something we’re constantly working on, but finding the right way to do it is always a bit of a work in progress.

Filed Under: Leadership

What matters is doing the right thing

August 4, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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There are two kinds of people in the world:

  • Those that want to be right.
  • Those that want to do the right thing.

There is certainly some crossover there, but if your focus is always trying to “be right” you might miss opportunities to shift gears and do the right thing.

In Kim Scott’s book “Radical Candor“, she shares this thought from Steve Jobs about being right.

I don’t mind being wrong. And I’ll admit that I’m wrong a lot. It doesn’t really matter to me too much. What matters to me is that we do the right thing. In my experience, people who are more concerned with getting to the right answer than with being right make the best bosses. That’ s because they keep learning and improving, and they push the people who work for them to do the same.

Steve is remembered as someone that was very intense and would push people beyond their limits, but if you stood up to him and showed him a better way to get something done, he’d listen.

I try to do the same, and remember that when it happens I end up being less wrong than I was before.

Filed Under: Leadership, Learning

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