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Three ways of learning

July 15, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I was recently listening to a great podcast about the life of Alexander Hamilton on “How To Take Over the World”. I encourage you to listen the full show yourself, but one piece that stuck out to me was a section about the three ways that Hamilton learned.

From the show:

If you can learn in all three of those ways, so that is book learning, experience, and from other people, they have this kind of synergistic effect, where if you’re just doing one of them you just aren’t gonna learn as fast.

When you can do all three together, I’m learning books, like I’m learning the textbook way to do it, I’m actually getting my hands dirty and getting experience, and I’m learning from people who have done it before. When you combine all three of those, that is the way to supercharge your learning and learn to do anything really fast.

Hamilton was widely regarded as being very intelligent and he worked hard to learn from all three angles:

  • Book learning
  • Life experience
  • Learning from others

It’s the first and third that have always stood out to me. While it’s fantastic to be able to learn from your experience, if you can learn from others (either via books or directly) and save the pain of having to experience it yourself, that’s even better.

If you have a chance, I highly recommend listening to the full episode.

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It can be good to doubt yourself

July 6, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I often struggle with a bit of imposter syndrome (“a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their skills, talents or accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a fraud“), as do many people. It can feel like a bad thing, but I find that it has quite a bit of power.

I see a few ways that it can be beneficial:

  • As I shared a few years ago, it can help us to keep working on our skills. If you know you can be better, you’re more likely to keep pushing forward. It’s the opposite (the Dunning-Krueger Effect) that can slow us down.
  • It makes you more willing to receive feedback. Along the lines of the previous point, if you already think you’ve got things down, you’re unlikely to listen very closely to advice. However, if you’re feeling a bit imposter-ish, advice can be exactly what you seek.

Imposter syndrome and doubts can certainly spiral into a bad place, so I’m not suggesting you should beat yourself up all the time. However, knowing your limits and seeking to expand them is often a great place to push.

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Time traveling through your notes

July 2, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I’ve only been taking solid daily notes for about four years now; that may sound like a lot, but compared to many folks it’s not much at all. One of those that has been doing this far longer than I have is Ryan Holiday, some of whose books you’ve likely read.

He recently shared how his note-taking habit can feel like time-traveling, and I’m a bit jealous of how far back he’s able to go. For example, here is Holiday talking about “The Great Gatsby”:

One of my favorite books to re-read is F. Scott Fitzgerald’s ​The Great Gatsby​. I love ​Gatsby​ not just because it’s an incredible book, one of the great works of the English language. I love it because it was one of the first books I ever loved. I was assigned to read and write an essay on ​Gatsby​ in my sophomore English class and I still have that copy. So when I re-read ​Gatsby​, I’m not just talking to Nick Carroway and Jay Gatsby and Meyer Wolfsheim and Scott Fitzgerald himself, I am also talking to 16-year-old me. I can see the food I spilled while I read it at the kitchen table of my parent’s house. I can see my teenage handwriting in the margins.

While I have some notes that go further back, they’re very limited and scattered. Even so, having four years worth of notes gives me quite a lot to go back to, particularly when revisiting a book from a few years back (which is something I’m intentionally trying to do more of).

While posts like this from Holiday make me feel a little bad, it also gives me inspiration to keep going strong. The longer I do it, the more value I’m building for my future self. He encourages people to start today if they haven’t done anything yet, saying:

The best time to have started a notebook or a commonplace book would have been many years ago, but the second best time would be now. Start small–record what strikes you, quotes that motivate you, stories that inspire you. Don’t think too hard, just follow your curiosity. When you read a book, write in it, fold the pages, really engage with the material. Preserve this moment in time. Capture what you’re thinking and feeling. Your future self will thank you.

His full post is quite good, and you should check it out.

Filed Under: Encouragement, Learning

What is the desired outcome?

June 28, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I’ve shared a few times on here how good decisions can have bad outcomes, and vice-versa, but that only really counts if you know what your desired outcome is. In that post above, the desired outcome was clear — the Seahawks wanted to score a touchdown. At other times, though, the outcome can be a bit foggier.

Take this blog for example. I’ve written every day for a bit over 1300 days, and I’ve explained why I’m doing it, but it’s still a very difficult outcome to measure. To paraphrase myself from four years ago, “I’m writing these posts to help me think more and to sharpen my thought”. I think it’s been successful, but it’s nearly impossible to measure.

Outcomes = goals?

Is a desired outcome essentially the same as a stated goal? I think so, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on that. If they are quite similar, though, that explains my lack of a clear desired outcome. I’ve shared that I’m beginning to shy away from goal-setting, replacing the goals with processes. If I can write consistently, record videos consistently, work out consistently, etc, those areas of my life should continually improve.

I don’t have a specified outcome from any of those tasks, but if I stay consistent with my efforts the outcomes will reveal themselves to me.

Filed Under: Health, Learning

We forget that we forget

June 14, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I do a lot of things to try to remember the things that I read and watch. Using a book as an example, I might write some blog posts about it, maybe share it on a podcast, and see quotes in my Readwise reviews. Even then, if I reread the book a few years later, tons of it will feel like brand new information.

This idea was brought up to me again (because I forgot that I forgot about it) in a recent episode of the Founders podcast. The episode was focused on Steve Jobs (and it was excellent; listen here), where the host David Senra shared this thought:

“Go back and reread the books that you’ve read before years ago and it’s amazing.”

This is even more astounding coming from someone like David, who studies books far deeper than I do. The fact that someone with his study process can go back and learn more from books in the future means that all of us can.

The problem is in the first “forget” in the statement he shared. When I think of a book, I feel like I remember it pretty well! I have my quotes, I’ve talked to folks, and I get it. The problem is that I don’t know what I’m forgetting, because I forgot about those sections.

It’s like I talked about a few weeks ago with “Repeat versus fresh content” and my constant tweaking to find the right balance. I always want to consume new content, but there is a lot of gold in the stuff that I’ve read in the past — even if I’ve forgotten about it.

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Write about what you don’t know

June 13, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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As you may know, I’m writing on here every day to try to help myself. I share these learnings in the hope that they’re of benefit to you as well, but they’re largely to help me unpack new ideas and concepts that I learn about.

A recent episode of Adam Grant’s “ReThinking” podcast with guest Rebecca Solnit had some fascinating insights. When talking about writing, Rebecca said this:

“I’ve always hated the advice of “Write what you know”, which puts a fence around people.”

The advice she shared came from the angle of writing content for others, like a book. If and when I decide to write a book, it will be filled with things that I know. For now, though, not being focused on “what I know” is a wonderful thing for this blog.

There are certainly times when I write about what I know, but I try to largely use this as a place to share things that I don’t really know. Sometimes the act of writing will help me get to an answer, but often that “answer” is just one possible solution. Your comments and feedback (whether here, on social media, or via email) are always welcome, because I often learn quite a bit more from those.

The topics I share tend to be somewhat open to interpretation (like this one), so even when I “know” the topic it can still be eye-opening for me to hear other perspectives.

I’ll write what I know, I’ll write what I don’t know, and I’m hopeful you’ll reach out to me when my thought on the topic doesn’t line up with yours so that we can all get a little bit better.

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Learning Line by Line

June 11, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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One of the new apps that I’ve added to my morning routine is a very simple one called “LineByLine” (I say “app”, but I think it’s just that website – no mobile app).

While Anki is fantastic for learning atomic pieces of data (countries, names, facts, etc), it’s not great for memorizing long pieces of text, and that’s where LineByLine comes in. If you want to remember a short speech, a poem, or some other bit of text, LineByLine helps walk you through it.

Suppose, for example, that you wanted to memorize the US Pledge of Allegiance. We’d start by pasting it in, paying careful attention to line breaks, as those are treated as separate chunks of text. I’d do it something like this:

Now, when I go to review it, it’ll start by just showing me what’s there with just a few letters missing, like this:

Over time, it removes more and more from each section:

Eventually, it just walks you through with blank lines. If you make any mistakes, just let it know and it’ll help you work on that section.

Use cases

To be fair, I’m not using it for very much yet. So far I’m learning the Preamble of the Constitution (“We the People of the United States…“), the Preamble to the Declaration of Independence (“We hold these truths to be self-evident…“) and George’s great story from Seinfeld (“The sea was angry that day, my friends…“). The last one is silly, but why not?

The app is free to use, but only remembers you on a single machine. If you want to sync across computers, it’s a grand total of $5, one-time, and you’re good for life. Quite a deal!

If you have something that you need to memorize, check out LineByLine.

What will you put in there to start to memorize?

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Do your years of experience matter?

June 4, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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Years of experience can be beneficial, but it often depends on what was in those years. As I shared last year, experience isn’t the same as practice. For example, most people have decades of experience typing on a computer, but only those that specifically practice at improving will get any better at it.

In his book “7 Strategies for Wealth and Happiness“, author Jim Rohn shares this same point by saying:

“The “guy” says, “I’ve got ten years’ experience. I don’t know why I’m not doing better.” What he hasn’t realized is that he doesn’t have ten years’ experience. What he has is one year’s experience repeated ten times. He hasn’t made a single improvement, a single innovation in nine years!”

That said, sometimes simple experiences can help a bit. While I try to specifically practice the skills that matter most, experience can matter in some situations. For example, while my experience in driving everyday has only made me a minimally better driver over the last 32 years, my experience in diagnosing WordPress or DNS issues is valuable simply due to the time I’ve put in. In those cases, the number of issues that can arise are almost limitless, so experiencing more of them over the years helps me to be able to more quickly diagnose new issues that clients might bring to us.

For your core work, is experience valuable or does it require specific practice to improve?

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Ideas that challenge

June 1, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I love being challenged by new ideas. I’ll certainly defend my point of view on any given subject, but I try to remain open to other possibilities. As Daniel Kahneman has said, it can be a great to be proven wrong because then you are “less wrong that you were before“.

On a recent episode of the 2Bobs podcast, Blair Enns got into this idea a bit as well when talking about finding information that is outside of our filter bubble. He said:

“I think because many of us, maybe even most of us, seek to ingest the information to cement our own biases instead of ingesting information that challenges our ideas, challenges our thinking.”

It’s a balancing act that I often struggle with. I want to dig deeper into the things I believe so that I can more soundly understand and defend them, but that’s not far off from the bias of a closed mind.

Having people around that don’t agree with everything that I believe is a great thing, provided that the conversations can remain civil. Those that think differently than I do but are caring and empathic people are some of my very favorites to spend time with.

Do you do anything in particular to avoid simply cementing your own biases?

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Goals or not?

May 29, 2024 by greenmellen 4 Comments

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I recently read Jim Rohn’s classic book “7 Strategies for Wealth and Happiness“. As I’ve done with a few books lately, I had a brief discussion about it with GPT-4o to see if there were insights that I missed.

I asked for the main takeaway from the book and got this response:

One of the biggest takeaways from Jim Rohn’s “The Seven Strategies for Wealth and Happiness” is the importance of setting clear, achievable goals. Rohn emphasizes that having a vision and plan for your life is crucial for both personal and financial success. Did any specific strategy resonate with you the most?

It’s a solid answer and after a bit of back and forth I pressed into the goal setting a bit more and contrasted it a bit with the lessons from Emmanual Acho about not setting goals. Here was that quick conversation:

Me:
Well, in Emmanuel Acho’s book, Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man, he is against goal setting, which contradicts this book. How do you see the two of those?

GPT-4o:
That’s an interesting contrast. Emmanuel Acho argues against traditional goal-setting because it can lead to disappointment and a narrow focus, potentially missing out on unexpected opportunities. Instead, he promotes focusing on values and continuous improvement.

Jim Rohn, on the other hand, sees goal-setting as a way to create a clear path and motivation. Both perspectives highlight the importance of direction but approach it differently. It’s about finding a balance between having a structured plan and remaining open to life’s unexpected opportunities. How do you feel about these differing views?

Me:
I tend to side with Emmanuel’s views, but Rohn’s views are interesting as well.

GPT-4o:
That makes sense. Embracing Acho’s perspective allows for more flexibility and adaptability, which can be less stressful and more aligned with personal growth. At the same time, Rohn’s structured approach can provide clear direction and motivation. You can take elements from both: have overarching values and principles to guide you, while setting flexible, adaptable goals that can evolve over time. Does that sound like a good blend to you?

The quality of the response from GPT-4o was amazing, and makes perfect sense for a way to help blend those two approaches to goal setting.

This also leads to a meta question for me. I’ve long said that I won’t use AI to write content on here, as that’s not the goal for it, and I have no intention of going away from that — but would this be considered AI-generated content for the blog? It essentially is, but I think it still meets my criteria. It’s reading that I’m doing, digging into the text, asking questions, and then laying out the answers. While I’m certainly using AI in this case to help generate the content, it seems quite different from an “AI-generated post”.

All of that said, where do you stand on goal-setting? Do you side more with Jim or Emmanuel?

Filed Under: AI, Learning

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