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But I’m not good at that

January 13, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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There are a lot of things that I’m not very good at, but I try to handle the situations properly when issues or questions come up.

Sometimes that means that I try to learn to solve the problem myself; if there is an issue with our company that I don’t know how to handle, I dig in and learn how to solve it.

On the other hand, if there is an issue with my car I’ll take it to a trusted mechanic so they can figure out what’s going on.

The third option is to just throw my hands up because it’s too complicated, which rarely is a good move.

In his book “$100M Leads“, author Alex Hormozi is pretty clear on this thoughts:

If You Say You Suck At Something, You Will Probably Suck At It.
Never say “I’m not techy” or “I hate tech stuff.” It just keeps you poorer than you should be.

There are things that I’m not good at, and some I can just pass off to others (like car issues). For many things, though, it’s in the best interest of myself and my company if I dig in and learn what’s going on. I may never be an expert in those troublesome areas, but to just say “I hate it” and ignore the problem is only going to lead to poorer outcomes.

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What’s a good reading goal?

January 8, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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In looking at reading goals, it can be kind of tricky to set a decent metric to measure against.

Most people default to “number of books read” (including myself), which isn’t bad. The problem is that it can create some bad incentives, particularly later in the year. I know one person that was short of his goal in December, so he read a bunch of short books in order to get there. Does that really count?

Related, I talked to another friend that never uses that metric specifically because he doesn’t want to limit himself. He reads more than anyone I know, but it often reads huge, long books. Those should count for more, right?

Other metrics

I see three other ways it could be measured:

Pages (or minutes): You could just look at the total number of pages read, or if you do audiobooks it could be minutes listened. That’s not bad.

Highlights saved: This is something pretty easy for me to measure with Readwise, but it measures the wrong thing. This measures how much value I’ve discovered in the books, but not how much total reading I’ve done. Value is the real goal, though, so maybe it counts?

Of note, my previous high had been 51 highlights with “The Personal MBA” from a few years ago, but “Poor Charlie’s Almanack” just blew that away with 94 highlights. Those are a few great books!

Blog posts created: For me, much of my reading leads to writing blog posts from topics on a particular book. This is somewhat hard to track, because sometimes I’ll share multiple highlights in a post, or share highlights from multiple books in a post. Still, this is another good way to measure how much value I get out of any given book.

Ultimately, I think I’ll keep an eye on two things:

  1. While it’s not a perfect metric, “number of books read” is easy enough that I’ll use it.
  2. Of those books, sorting by “highlights” is a great way to see what had the most impact on me.

We’ll see how it goes.

What metrics do you use to track your reading progress?

Filed Under: Learning

Emulating the values of Charlie Munger

January 4, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I finally finished reading “Poor Charlie’s Almanack” (which I first mentioned last month) and it was fantastic. I’ve heard a lot about Charlie Munger over the years, but the depth of this book was amazing.

The book technically wasn’t written by Charlie, but it was his full of his content — text of talks and speeches that he gave over the years, with additional snippets from Charlie and others to frame up the talks. This post is about part of the intro to the book, where it was explained as follows:

The quotes, talks, and speeches presented here are rooted in the old-fashioned Midwestern values for which Charlie has become known: lifelong learning, intellectual curiosity, sobriety, avoidance of envy and resentment, reliability, learning from the mistakes of others, perseverance, objectivity, willingness to test one’s own beliefs, and many more.

That list of values is something that most everyone should strive to follow. Among other things, this blog is intended to help me with a few of those items, and the others are something that I continue to work toward.

Throughout the book Charlie talks much about sobriety, which follows a thought I’ve been chewing on lately in trying to figure out why things like alcohol are so popular. I don’t begrudge someone drinking casually, assuming they can keep it under control, but the downsides just seem too large to ignore. If nothing else, alcohol will cost money, add calories, and make you feel little rough the next day. Taken further, of course, it can lead to devastating consequences. Charlie addresses it (among other things) with:

One should stay far away from any conduct at all likely to drift into chemical dependency. Even a small chance of suffering so great a damage should be avoided.

I know a handful of people who have had very serious issues with alcohol, and Charlie’s take is one that most would agree with — avoiding starting is much easier than quitting later.

I’m pleased that his list of values presented in the book match the values that I already strive for, but they also make me realize how far I have to go. Let’s keep going.

Filed Under: Health, Learning

We seem like slowed-down whale songs

January 2, 2024 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I consume a lot of content in order to learn, and many others consume far more than I do. It feels like a torrid pace, but compared to AI tools it’s laughably slow.

Back in 2016, Sam Altman (the man behind OpenAI, which is behind ChatGPT) shared this idea:

“There are certain advantages to being a machine. We humans are limited by our input-output rate—we learn only two bits a second, so a ton is lost. To a machine, we must seem like slowed-down whale songs.”

In a system like ChatGPT, their scale is often measured in “parameters” — connections between various words. GPT-3 uses roughly 175 billion parameters, and GPT-4 uses nearly a trillion parameters. If we consider a parameter to be roughly equal to a single word in a book, then GPT-4 is using the content equivalent to 10,000,000 books — and it doesn’t forget a word.

Reading a book per week, it’d take you around 192,000 years to catch up with GPT-4 and, again, you’d like not remember a sizeable portion of what you read (I sure know I wouldn’t).

This is amazing enough, but it’s accelerating a rapid pace as well. As time goes on, our ability to consume knowledge will seem ever slower compared to machines, and being seen as a “slowed-down whale song” seems about right.

Google has been steering us toward this for years now, and our advantages as humans will be how we can use tools to make sense of all of that content, rather than trying to remember everything ourselves.

Filed Under: AI, Learning

You can’t do it, or you’re still learning?

December 16, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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There are many things that I can’t do, and a subset of those are things that I’m trying to learn to do. The difference is subtle, but can make a huge difference.

In “Excellent Advice for Living“, Kevin Kelly shares:

The fact that you “can’t do” something can be embarrassing. But if you are “learning to do” something that is admirable. There are only tiny baby steps between can’t and learning.

As he says, the difference between “can’t” and “learning” is just some tiny baby steps.

I can’t play the violin, and likely never will. Perhaps you can’t play it either, but you might be learning to. That puts us in roughly the same spot skill-wise, but you have a much brighter future when it comes to violin playing.

I can’t speak Spanish, but I’m learning. I’m not far beyond someone that can’t speak it and doesn’t care, but I’m heading in the right direction.

It’s ok to have things that you can’t do and never plan to do, but making the “tiny baby steps” to start learning can pay off big time over the course of a few years.

Filed Under: Learning

You can’t just download information into your brain

December 13, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I wish the title of this post wasn’t true, as it’d be quite awesome if you could just push a button to add the knowledge that we want to our brain. Perhaps it will be possible in the future, but it’s certainly not here yet.

That said, it sort of is already, at least compared to our ancestors. While we can’t put info directly into our brain, having things like smartphones and Google puts all of the world’s information just a few seconds away.

To really learn something, though, takes time. In Adam Grant’s new book “Hidden Potential“, he explains it like this:

Learning from multiple guides is an iterative, interactive process. It’s not as simple as going to people and asking, “Can I pick your brain?” Also, the image of picking a brain is gross. The information isn’t just sitting there, waiting to be extracted. We don’t live in the Matrix. Guides can’t simply upload their insights for us to download.

The recent passing of Charlie Munger got me thinking about things like this. The man lived 99 years, and read as much as any human in history. He was brilliant and articulate, even at his advanced age. Then one day he’s gone, and all of that knowledge goes with him.

Thankfully, he left a lot of his knowledge behind, but it takes work to actually make use of it. One of my favorite books is his “Poor Charlie’s Almanack“, which covered much of his life and wisdom. My only problem with the book is that it was difficult to read; not in terms of the words, but the format. It’s literally a huge book (10″x10″, weighing over 5 pounds), and the book is full of call-outs and pull quotes and other things that mean you really need to take your time going through it. Here’s an example:

Fortunately, they just released it on Kindle last week and it’s a much easier read. The content is all there, but it’s laid out end to end so you can just work through it. If you want some wisdom from Charlie, that book is fantastic place to start.

This is also why I love podcasts like “Founders”, where the host walks through biographies of hundreds of different people. Even though the host gets more out of it than we do, it’s still a tremendous way to learn from those that have come before us, and it’s the closest we can get to downloading their wisdom into our brains.

Perhaps someday we can plug ourselves into a system to upgrade our knowledge, for now we can be thankful for things like Google, smartphones, Founders, and Poor Charlie’s Almanack.

Filed Under: Learning

Your notes are not my notes

December 7, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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While sharing notes with other people can be helpful, it’s often troublesome because the notes that you take are generally far more valuable to you than anyone else. In his book “Outsmart Your Brain“, author Daniel Willingham shares more:

The notes you get from someone else will not be the same as those you take yourself. Notes are cues that will jog your memory back to the understanding you had during class, and you’ve seen how particular those cues can be; grocery-deficit coffee is different from neighbor-gift coffee.

Good notes should speak for themselves, but there is always a bit more in our brain that gets triggered by the note that others won’t be able to see.

I’ve noticed this with our team; if one of us goes to a conference and comes back to share their notes, it’s just not nearly as effective as having been there ourselves. I’ve found that having more of us at the event leads to far greater understanding than one person trying to share some pieces of what they learned.

This is challenging, because the effort and cost for one person to attend an event and take notes is far less than for a group. At what scale does it pay off?

Over the years, this has somewhat limited to the events I’ve gone too when Ali is unable to attend with me. I know that going alone offers value, but it seems that going together offers 10x value (though it’s at least 10x the effort as well).

The best solution I can find is to take better, more comprehensive notes. I can still only share a fraction of the value, but I can do it in a fraction of the time. If someone misses a three-day event and I give them a 15 minute recap, that’s less than 1% of the time investment for them but hopefully a bit more than 1% of the value.

What do you do with your notes to make them more beneficial for others to read?

Filed Under: Content, Learning

Intentional frequency illusion

December 5, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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The Baader-Meinhof phenomenon, commonly known as the “frequency illusion”, is typically nothing more than annoying. It’s when you buy green Ford Explorer to be a little different, and then suddenly you seem to notice green Ford Explorers everywhere. Whatever is top of mind you tend to notice lot.

However, I’m finding that intentionally manipulating this illusion can be kind of handy. I’ve watched the show “Timeless” a few times, but something happened the last time I watched it. Somewhere between watchings, I came across Eldridge Cleaver and his work during the civil rights movement. I didn’t really notice the role he played in Timeless before, but because I had heard of him elsewhere his name stuck out during the rewatch of the show and I become more interested.

I’ve seen this happen a few times in various circumstances — names seemed to pop up a lot more often once I knew a little bit about them. Once I learn a bit about someone, it’s no longer just noise in a story like it was previously.

Make it intentional

I thought it would be neat to make this more intentional, so I’ve spent some time building a new Anki deck to help with that (more about Anki here, and the deck is here). I searched for lists of top authors, journalists, civil rights leaders, company founders, astronauts, explorers, Olympians, inventors, painters, and others, and put them all in this deck. There are 371 people in there now, and I’ll likely add a few more as time goes on.

The questions I wrote for each one are very simple, as I’m mostly just using it to stick their names in my head. Some I might go deeper on, but most I simply want to have some awareness of them so that I’ll notice when they pop up in TV shows, podcasts, or other places.

Is it possible to intentionally create the frequency illusion? I honestly don’t know, but I’ll be studying this deck for the next year or so (just one new card per day), so we’ll see what happens!

Filed Under: Learning

Know enough to find the gaps

November 30, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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As I’m reading and learning, I try to spend a lot of time finding where the gaps are in my knowledge. There are lot of them, to be sure, but some stay hidden quite well. Those are usually the result of an area that I’m not very familiar with, so I don’t know where the gaps are. If I’m not careful, that can lead to some illusory superiority, where I think I know more about an area than I really do.

It reminds me of when we were hiring for a position at GreenMellen a long time ago, and a skill needed for this role was the ability to read and write CSS code. In one interview, a woman said “I’ve never used CSS, but I can learn it this weekend if I need to“. She may have been bragging about her ability to learn, but I think it was really more of a case of illusory superiority — she didn’t know any CSS, so she didn’t have a scale of what was involved in learning it. My CSS skills have always been somewhat decent, but it helps me know enough that it’d take far more than a weekend to really level them up.

In Natalie Nixon’s book “The Creativity Leap“, she shares a snippet from Ian Leslie’s “Curious“:

In his book Curious, Ian Leslie explains that curiosity is the result of an information gap. To be curious about something, you must know just a little bit about it. He writes, “In order to feel curious—to feel the desire to close an information gap—you have to be aware of a gap in your own knowledge in the first place.”

I find the best way to find gaps is to learn in broad areas. Knowing even just a little bit about a particular area will give you some insight into what’s required to master it. I’ll go deep in some areas, but I try to keep my reading and podcasts fairly broad so I can better identify those gaps.

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Writing exposes your gaps

November 28, 2023 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I’ve shared a few times on here that I often don’t know what I’m wrong about, so I work to try to expose those areas. Reading helps with that a lot, as does writing.

In Adam Grant’s new book “Hidden Potential“, he shares:

I’ve seen many people shy away from writing because it doesn’t come naturally to them. What they overlook is that writing is more than a vehicle for communicating—it’s a tool for learning. Writing exposes gaps in your knowledge and logic. It pushes you to articulate assumptions and consider counterarguments. Unclear writing is a sign of unclear thinking. Or as Steve (Martin) himself quipped, “Some people have a way with words, and other people, uh . . . oh, not have a way.”

I’ve found that the people with the clearest minds tend to be the ones that write the most. It might be books or blog posts or even personal journals, but getting things out of your head is a fantastic way to clarify what you think.

I still believe that publishing in public helps more because it forces more polished thoughts, but any kind of writing that you can do will put your clarity of thought miles ahead of where it is right now.

Filed Under: Content, Learning

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