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Flow follows process

June 11, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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Getting into a state of flow can be amazing. It could happen while you’re writing, painting, running, or many other things. Time slows down and things feel effortless.

We all know well enough that for things like exercising, the decision to do it is often more work than the actual exercise. Once we get going, it can feel pretty good. The challenge is that there is no way to get that feeling of flow until you get in and start doing the work.

Writing is the same. If I sat around and waited for brilliant inspiration to strike, I might never write a word. There’s a chance something would hit me from time to time, but waiting for the muse to strike is a fool’s game. Start writing and the flow will often follow.

As long as you have small nuggets of ideas ready to go (and regular reading habits will solve that), then it’s just a matter of taking the time to get it going.

Some days I don’t feel like writing or don’t feel like exercising, but forcing myself to just take one tiny step forward is usually all it takes.

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How big is your unread library?

June 10, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I try to set up my life so that the “next steps” are often right in front of me. When I sit down to write a blog post, I usually have 20-25 ideas already sitting there waiting for me, so I can just pick one and get to it. I keep a list of ideas with the #blogideas tag in my Roam notes database, and it makes consistent writing easier.

The same is true with reading. When it’s time to grab the next book, I have a list ready to go. From his book “Steal Like An Artist“, author Austin Kleon shares this quote:

“Collect books, even if you don’t plan on reading them right away. Filmmaker John Waters has said, “Nothing is more important than an unread library.”

In my case, I’m both very good about that, but also very bad.

On the bad side, I simply don’t have many physical books. My appreciation for them is beginning to grow again, so that may change over time, but right now the vast majority of my reading is done on my Kindle or using my big reading shortcut.

On the other hand, I do keep a good-sized queue, which as of today has 147 books in it. Really, whenever someone mentions a book that I should read, I drop it on the list with a few quick notes about why they recommend it. In the past I was bad about leaving those notes, so I’d see a book on my list but have no idea why it was there. Now my notes look something like this:

For me, it’s the “#toread” tag that makes all of the difference. When I finish a book, I change that to #donereading so I can filter appropriately, and it makes it very easy to see what’s still out there to get done.

If all goes well, by the time I finish those 147 books, the list will have somehow swelled to 200.

Do you keep a solid list of books that you want to read?

Filed Under: Learning, Productivity

Reliability makes work easier

June 7, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I’ve long said that the level of trust that I have in my team helps make my life much easier. Among other things, I know that if I send an email to one of them to get something taken care of, I don’t need to remind myself to follow-up — it gets done.

However, a section in by Brené Brown’s book “Dare to Lead” has helped me refine my thoughts a bit further. In the book, they discuss seven separate behaviors that encourage trust, which just happen to form the acronym BRAVING:

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  • Boundaries
  • Reliability
  • Accountability
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  • Integrity
  • Non-judgement
  • Generosity

From that list, “reliability” is clearly the one that affected my thoughts from that older post. While our team exhibits those other traits to a wonderful degree, reliability is the part I was referring to that makes my day-to-day life run more smoothly.

Greg McKeown summed it up perfectly in his book “Effortless“, when he said:

“When there’s trust, we don’t have to spend time and effort managing people or relationships. We can assign tasks with the confidence that they’ll be completed.”

It’s an amazing thing to have, and I’m thankful to have a team with reliability that I can depend on.

Filed Under: Business, Leadership, Productivity

Sometimes I’d rather just read

May 26, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I’ve talked a few times about my big reading shortcut, and how I can spend less than an hour to extract almost all of the best information from almost any book. It works amazingly well, but it’s a very focused hour to get it done (20 minutes reading, 20 minutes pulling more quotes, 20 minutes processing it all).

This past weekend our family went away to Charleston for a quick mini-vacation. It was a fairly packed and excellent weekend, and I knew I’d have a bit of downtime to just read/relax. However, that “shortcut” was far too intense for this kind of reading. For that, it was just back to some normal books on the Kindle.

I could read when I had a few minutes, but then put it away at a moment’s notice.

It was nice.

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I’ll continue to work that shortcut a few times a week in order to keep my “to-read” list in check (it’s still at 147 books, so it’ll be a while), but it’s great sometimes to just relax and read and not worry about having to push so hard.

Filed Under: Learning, Productivity

Should you be scheduling more emails?

May 22, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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A few years ago, Gmail added a nifty feature tucked into the main “Send” button to “Schedule Send”. Pressing that button will open a prompt for when you want to send it, and then it essentially hides the email and sends it at the appropriate time.

I use this feature occasionally, but an article from Deb Tennen lists some reasons why you might consider scheduling almost every email that you send.

Her core argument is based on these four reasons:

  1. You have more time to change your mind. You can “undo send” in Gmail for a matter of seconds, but scheduling an email for later in the day gives you plenty of time if you change your mind.
  2. You can hide your working hours. In some cases, it can look bad to send an email at 10pm, so this can make it look like you send it during normal hours. The idea here isn’t to be deceitful, but to encourage worktime communication with your clients and coworkers.
  3. You can respond immediately while avoiding the ping-pong. Respond right away, get that email off your plate, but know that it won’t be seen by the other party for a few hours.
  4. Save some stress from both parties. Many people clear out their inboxes on Friday afternoons, but that often means adding clutter to other inboxes. Send your email on Friday afternoon, but schedule it go out on Monday.
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For me, my biggest concern is that a follow-up might show up in that same thread during the “sent but scheduled” window and it could make me look bad. For example:

  • Client: “Should we make this red or blue?”
  • My response: “Red would be ideal because of a, b, c” (schedule send for later)
  • Client, before my scheduled email goes out: “Actually, we discussed internally and we’re going with blue.”
  • My initial response finally goes through, and seems really weird in that new context.

I very well may be over-thinking this. Double emails like that are fairly rare, and there’s still a chance you would see the new message from the client and then edit or cancel your old response before it went out.

Deb also shares a few tips for improvement, including the idea to schedule those emails for random times. If they always go out at 9:00 on the dot, that could look weird. It’s kind of like the out-of-control email automation I shared a few years ago when every email showed up at 10:57am.

I can’t see using it as much as Deb suggests, but I do think I’ll start using it more often when it matches up with her four tips. Be sure to check out her full post for more.

How often do you use a “schedule send” feature?

Filed Under: Productivity

An overwhelming number of inputs

May 13, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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We have a lot of things being thrown our way. In a typical day, most of us will have to deal with requests coming via email, text messages, social media, to-do lists and a variety of other places. It can be a lot!

As Khe Hy said in a recent post, many of us often have three problems:

1. I never have enough time
2. I have a futile fixation of getting it all done
3. I’m overwhelmed by the number of inputs in my life

There’s not an easy solution to this, but a few small shifts can help.

First, “never having enough time” is often something put on us by others. If you find yourself with too little time to get everything done, the issue may be more with your priorities than your available time.

Second, getting a tight grip on your inputs is essential. I laid this out in-depth in The Digital Efficiency Framework, but you really have three kinds of inputs coming at you:

  • Controlled Inputs, where you have tight control of everything in there. This is generally things like your daily flashcards and your consumption list (such as apps like Pocket).
  • Variable Inputs, where you have some control with things such as email, RSS feeds, and the quick notes that you leave for yourself (which may be inspired by things that others tell you to do). The key here is that all of those have a solid ending and can be worked to zero.
  • Uncontrolled Inputs, like social media and news sites. They’ll go on and on and on as long as you let them.
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The solution is simple in theory, but hard to pull off; have more controlled inputs and fewer uncontrolled ones. Add great articles to Pocket instead of browsing Instagram. Follow people you respect via RSS instead of Facebook. Little things add up.

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Depending on your role you may or may not be able to impact it much, but I’m trying to sort my life around controlled inputs as much as possible to help keep the “overwhelming” inputs at bay.

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Efficient isn’t the same as effective

May 12, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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I strive to be a very efficient person, as evidenced by the well over 100 posts in the “productivity” category of this blog. I try to be careful, though, as efficiency has very little to do with being effective, and the latter is far more important.

Kevin Paul Scott laid this out beautifully in a recent blog post of his, where he summed it up like this when discussing remote/Zoom meetings vs in-person:

We take work that would be accomplished more effectively if done together, and instead we opt for efficiency and do it alone.

When it comes to things like Zoom, it’s certainly a tough balance. There is no doubt that it’s more efficient to meet via Zoom, but also that it’s more effective to meet in person.

At the end of the day, simply facing that question will help you to make wise decisions. While in-person is more effective, there are certainly many cases where meeting via Zoom makes more sense for all parties.

I’m as guilty as anyone of just defaulting to remote meetings, even when getting together might make more sense. It’s certainly something I’ll be chewing on, and I suspect I’ll pivot more of them away from Zoom in the future.

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Where did that time come from?

May 1, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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When people say they don’t have time to exercise, visit with friends, or just relax, they’re likely telling the truth. Their calendar is full and things can get tight.

A big (somewhat hidden) reason for this is social media, which on average consumes nearly 2-1/2 hours every single day (source). Where did that time come from? People were plenty busy before social media came along, but we’ve found ways to squeeze an extra 147 minutes into every single day.

I think the reasoning behind this is two-fold:

First, you have Parkinson’s Law (“work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion“) coming into effect. People may take more time every day to mess around on social media, but still find ways to get their work done. In a way, you could say it enhances their productivity because they have to get more done in less time.

This was shown in a funny manner on “The Office” back in season 3. When Jan (the big boss) showed up unexpectedly, while most of the staff was watching a movie, she asked “How would a movie increase productivity?”.

Michael’s response? “People would work faster after. They’d have to, to make up for the time lost watching the movie.”

Here’s the clip if you’ve never seen it:

The other side is that people’s priorities shift around, which is really the appropriate response to someone being too busy. You are absolutely not “too busy” to make that change in your life, but it’s just not a priority for you.

Take your time back

For most of us, we’re on social media more often that we probably should be, so that time is easy to take back. Seth Godin famously isn’t on social media at all, which helps explain why he’s able to produce so many books, podcasts and blog posts.

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You’ve made room in your life for social media (and hundreds of other things), so if you want to make room for something more important you have some low-hanging fruit that you can move out of the way to get things started.

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Run more parity checks

April 26, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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In computing, a parity check is “the process that ensures accurate data transmission between nodes during communication“. In other words, it’s a simple test that will help make sure that the data being sent is the same as the data being received and that nothing was lost along the way. They’re imperfect checks, but they’ll catch (and help to fix) many potential errors.

We need more parity checks in our lives too.

The week ahead…

I’ve talked a good bit in the past about my process of running a “weekly preview” every Friday. It’s where I look at what’s coming up and try to catch any scheduling issues before they become a big problem.

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In recent months, though, I’ve added one small thing to it. After I’ve looked at the week I send two simple emails — one to my wife and one to my business partner — with a quick outline of what’s coming up. Here’s an example:

The main benefit of those emails is simply to make sure we’re aligned on everything approaching next week, and 90% of the time all is smooth. However, on a few occasions they’ll write back and point out a conflict that I might have missed, such as “Why is that meeting on Thursday? We have that other thing on Thursday.” Discovering that a week ahead of time is much better than scrambling to solve it on Thursday morning.

A real example from a few weeks ago in my email to Ali I mentioned “I’ll be working from home on Monday since I don’t need to go in” and she quickly reminded me that our meeting with a client on Monday was in person, not on video chat. Had she not told me, I likely would have realized that when the meeting was starting and I was not in the right location. Great catch!

Not too much

With all things, though, there’s a balance to be struck here. I could send them both an email every day to discuss tomorrow, but that would add a whole lot of meta work and likely not be worth the effort.

Similarly, I try to pay attention to how much detail I put in my weekly emails to them. More is better, but only to a point. I try to stick to just a bullet point or two for each day with the highlights, simply to make sure we’re on the same page.

Parity checking won’t catch every error, but if it can fix a few then it’s worth doing.

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Mise en place for better writing

April 9, 2022 by greenmellen Leave a Comment

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When I cook, which is fairly rarely, I try to follow the French concept of mise en place, where you have everything prepped and ready to go before you actually start. Given my weak cooking skills, it’s very helpful to do that.

I’m finding that writing works best for me when I follow the same idea. I’ve said before that I have a hard time when faced with a blank page, so the more prep that I do for each post, the easier it is for me. I broke down each step of my process in this post last month, and it shows how my mise en place comes together.

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If you read that post, the key for me is the processing step in the middle. During that step I pull in relevant quotes, thoughts, photos, ideas, etc so that all of my ingredients are laid out in front of me.

When it’s time to write, I have all of the core pieces at my fingertips, and it’s just a matter of assembling them in the right order and putting words around them.

Some of my meals come out better than others, but they’re all easier to produce when I follow the right steps.

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